the particulars

  • The easiest way to reach me is through my booking page or by email.

    Advance notice is appreciated, particularly for longer dates, travel, and specific dates you would like me to reserve. I generally reply within 24 hours; messages received after 7:00 p.m. will be answered the following day.

    I keep pre-date correspondence primarily to introductions and planning. Once we have made plans, you can expect me to be attentive and reliable.

  • I especially enjoy dates with a little room to breathe: dinner, an evening out, an overnight, or travel.

    The best dates tend to be the ones where neither of us feels rushed and there is time for conversation, chemistry, and whatever direction the evening naturally takes.

  • Please arrive freshly showered and feeling well.

    If you are sick or coming down with something contagious, I ask that we reschedule. I will always offer you the same consideration.

  • Please have the agreed amount ready at the beginning of our time together, discreetly placed in an envelope or card.

    Any expenses associated with our plans are separate and kindly covered by you.

    Once that is taken care of, I prefer not to think about it again.

  • Kindness, consideration, and mutual respect are essential to me.

    I want our time together to feel relaxed, affectionate, and enjoyable for both of us. My boundaries must always be respected, just as I will respect yours.

    If I am treated disrespectfully, pressured, or made to feel unsafe, I will end our time together immediately and without refund.

  • Absolutely. Thoughtful gifts are always appreciated.

    If you would like a little inspiration, you can find my wishlist here, or you are very welcome to surprise me.

  • generally choose what I wear and have a classic, understated sense of style. You can trust that I will dress appropriately for the occasion.

    If there is something specific you would especially enjoy seeing me in, you are welcome to purchase it for our date.

  • Never expected, always appreciated.

    Generosity is something I notice and remember and if you want a suggestion 10-20% shows you have the very best of manners.

  • I prefer to keep our time together private and ask that you not post public reviews.

    For those curious about the experience, I have shared a few lasting impressions on my About page.

  • Natural blonde · blue eyes
    5'4½"
    32D
    Natural, with no fillers, cosmetic surgery, or tattoos
    Born and raised in California
    Conversational French

  • A deposit is required to reserve our time together and is applied toward the total amount.

    If you need to reschedule, please give me as much notice as possible. With at least 72 hours notice, I am generally happy to transfer the deposit to a future date. Please see below for exact details on this policy.

    Last-minute cancellations and no-shows result in forfeiture of the deposit.

  • Discretion is very important to me.

    Anything you share with me remains private, and I ask for the same consideration in return.

    I use end to end encrypted communication methods for all correspondences in order to protect personal information.

design a date

I go weak for good food, good company, and deep relaxation.

Favorite RESTAURaNTs

(photo from a Japanese Omakase dinner date)

My favorite cuisines are Japanese and Italian but generally I just like good food. I’m happy to make reservations for us, or you can use the attached reservation links below. Beauty is in the perfection of details, and these restaurants get it right.

Longer Date Ideas

(selfie from the Art Deco Spa in Amsterdam)

I identify as an international spa hopper. Introduce me to your favorite?

  • Bamford Wellness Spa is located in the 1 hotel and overlooking the city, we can bathe in tubs right next to each other after enjoying massages and/or other spa treatments. We could always get massages in our room, but why not make a day of it and savor something special?

  • Healing Arts Spa at Cavallo Point in Sausalito has beautiful spa facilities: we can relax by the pool, order spa cuisine, get massages, and chill in the lounge. Sausalito has numerous restaurants where we can indulge in bay views afterwards.

  • Sen Spa is the place to get massages and relax in SF, located in the Presidio neighborhood. They even offer a Somadome experience, an alien looking pod contraption to relax in which bathes you in different color LED lights and meditation visualization exercises.

  • At Watercourse Way, we can get massages then before or after we can relax in one of their beautiful individual spa rooms consisting of a hot tub, cold plunge and sauna or steam room.

  • This Spa has a pool in an olive grove. I’ve been dying to try this place. With a zero gravity pool and a true California minimalism aesthetic, Montage Healdsburg also has a spa I’ve been wanting to try :)

  • Michelin rated property, restaurant and spa in the Napa Valley.

booking & deposit

A 30% deposit is required to confirm dates within the San Francisco Bay Area. Fly-me-to-you and touring dates require a 50% deposit in addition to all travel expenses.

Once screening is complete and we have agreed on the details of our date, I’ll send everything needed to confirm via deposit.

Dates are not considered reserved until screening is completed and the deposit has been received.

Incall, Outcall & Bay Area travel

I’m happy to join you at your hotel, or I can arrange accommodations for us. I do not visit private residences for first dates.

If I arrange our San Francisco incall, please add $500. I generally choose a lovely four star upscale hotel; if you prefer a particular five-star property, suite, or special accommodation, I’m happy to arrange it and will quote any difference in advance.

Travel outside San Francisco proper is generally $250 - $300 and varies based on distance. Napa, Sonoma, Monterey, and Santa Cruz carry a $500 travel consideration and a four-hour minimum.

Flying to you

I’m delighted to travel for the right date.

Domestic fly-me-to-you dates begin at eight hours. International travel begins with a 24-hour booking.

A 50% deposit and all travel expenses are required in advance. Round-trip business-class airfare is requested for flights over four hours, along with appropriate accommodations and ground transportation.

Please include your destination and preferred dates when you inquire, and I’ll be happy to quote the details.

Overnights & Extended dates

Overnights are meant to feel leisurely rather than exhausting. I reserve approximately seven uninterrupted hours for sleep so that we can both enjoy the entirety of our time together.

If you know you are a particularly enthusiastic snorer or restless sleeper, a suite or separate sleeping area is always appreciated.

Additional time may be added when my schedule allows at $1,200 per hour.

Duos

I absolutely love duos. Duos are a three hour minimum and both of our rates matched to the higher rate.

Same Day & special requests

I plan my time carefully and strongly prefer dates arranged in advance.

Same-day requests carry an additional $1,000 consideration.

Dates beginning or ending past midnight may also carry an additional consideration.

Couples are welcomed selectively at a three hour minimum and carry an additional $1,000.

Dates of three hours or longer must include a shared experience outside the hotel such as dinner, a show, an event, or something we choose together.

Rescheduling and Cancellations

Deposits are non-refundable but may be transferred once to a new date with at least 72 hours’ notice.

Cancellations within 72 hours require 50% of the booking consideration. Cancellations within 48 hours require the full booking consideration.

For fly-me-to-you and touring dates, cancellations within seven days require full payment, and any travel expenses already incurred are non-refundable.

Repeated cancellations may require full prepayment for future dates.

References

I’m happy to provide references for gentlemen I have met recently.

In my experience, many providers either do not respond to reference requests, or respond weeks later, which is not helpful. This makes sense, as it isn’t at the top of their priority list. To put it at the top of my to do list, please send me a $300 administration fee. I will send a through reference within the next 3-6 hours after receiving your request and gift card or other payment.

Gifts

My wishlist has giftcards, which are one of my preferred gifts as I’m almost equally fond of practicality as I am of beauty and quality. Other things I love are artisanal dark chocolate such as Dandelion, Gerolsteiner Sparkling Water, Non-alcoholic Wines, artisenal cheeses, specialty fruit, luxury cashmere, and Hermes and Bottega Veneta leather goods. I have a soft spot for Tiffanys gold, diamonds, platinum and pearls. I also love investing in the stock market, and if you give me an extra cash gift, that’s where the money will be going. And I can tell you with certainty I absolutely love a man, above all, that is interested in my financial future.

ongoing arrangements

For the right person, I’m open to discussing exclusive or non-exclusive ongoing arrangements.

These are highly individual and bespoke.